Nice Guys and why they have hard time with women
Awareness is essential if you want to be successful with
women. First of all, you have to be aware of your own wants and
needs. What makes a “nice guy” is his lack of acting from his own
will. When with a woman, he always acts the way he thinks she
wants him to act. If a man has no backbone and always goes
along with what a woman tells him, then he is well-into the “nice
Have you ever heard the saying “Nice guys finish last”? Well,
there is vital truth in this statement when it comes to dealing
with women. As women mature, they want safety and security.
This change in mind-set and priorities comes for most women in
their mid- to late thirties when they realize that they only have a
few more years left before they’re too old to have kids. Prior to
that, most women want unpredictability and adventure. As guys,
we like a clear-cut, logical solution to our problems. Women often
don’t want solutions. They want emotions and romance. They
desire mystery, drama, and danger; preferably all in one guy.
Men and women differ greatly in the way they pick mates.
For many guys, sex is usually the first goal. For many
women, it is all about selecting and then keeping the right guy
monogamous. Often this means holding out her bargaining chip-
-sex--for as long as she can. The longer she withholds it, the
more power in the relationship she acquires. When a guy invests
time chasing her, the conquest becomes much more valuable.
The courtship process has evolved with the development of
cell phones and the Internet, but the basic premise is the same
as it has been for thousands of years. The premise is that women
and men meet each other; she likes him; he likes her; they sleep
together, make babies and live happy ever after. We are creatures
of desire and we always seem to desire more. We want more
money, more sex, more women, more, more, and more. This is
why it’s important to know what you want, be it an attractive
intelligent women, or a great job. Once you get it, you’ll want to
enjoy it. You’ll also want to experience being in the moment,
instead of thinking that the grass is always greener on the other
side of the fence.
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